Men and Women Over 50 Can Still Enjoy Sex

March 15th, 2010 | by admin |

Just because older men with erectile dysfunction and women who had been through menopause are considered the older generation, it does not mean that they have to stop having sex just because society deems it acceptable for them to retire from this enjoyable and pleasurable experience. In fact, it should be promoted that these individuals be taught that they can still enjoy sex and find it as fulfilling as they did during their younger years.

Ruth Westheimer, a sex therapist, and Mary Jane Minkin, a gynecologist feels strongly about this issue, and they are helping these individuals in understanding that this can still happen to them. They are confident that they can teach the importance of sex in men and women over the age of 50 because they have powerful tools backing them up psychologically and medically.

Ruth Westheimer says that sex is one of the marital bonds that hold the relationship together. This bond should be shared as much as possible and should not stop just because it is unthought-of for older individuals to still have and enjoy sex. Although some older couples might try to stay together without the fulfilling and satisfying effects of sex, it can still cause some pressure in the relationship, and Ruth Westheimer wants to avoid that.

With the coming of Viagra, it became a one-sided benefit within the older generation to enjoy sex. Men can have erections through Viagra’s help or other erectile dysfunction medications, but medically, is there such a thing for women who is menopausal and has decreased libido? The fear of hormone-replacement therapy causing cancer and cardiac problems drove older women away from trying these medications.

There is a topical hormone though that is available in the market that can be used vaginally to decrease or get rid of vaginal dryness. Vaginal dryness is the main complaint of women over 50 when they are having sex wherein sex becomes a major turnoff for them. This topical hormone is a suppository, a little tablet, which women can take twice a week so the fear of stomach absorption is eliminated since it is a topical therapy.

This topical hormone is called Vagifem, which is an estrogen pill. Like any other medications, it needs to be prescribed by your primary care physician or doctor. Other topical therapies are also offered like estrogen cream, but women complain of the messiness this creates when applied.

So who says that men and women over 50 cannot enjoy sex just because they are getting older? With Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Kamagra, Vimex, and other erectile dysfunction medications out in the market for men to enjoy their sex life, women has their Vagifem and estrogen creams to help them with their vaginal dryness. With the use of these products, their sex life will have a new zing added to it.

The main problem though for the use of these products is that the older individuals still find it embarrassing to seek medical attention regarding these problems. But with proper education and good advertisement, I bet they will get to enjoy what they had once.

Kallore Gandhi
http://www.articlesbase.com/health-articles/men-and-women-over-50-can-still-enjoy-sex-99282.html

  1. 12 Responses to “Men and Women Over 50 Can Still Enjoy Sex”

  2. By longshanks on Mar 15, 2010 | Reply

    Do women over 40 still like flirting?
    My wife, who is a good person, hangs out with friends that like to go out, dress up, and flirt with men. They really enjoy it and have tons of laughs. I know there are some guys who take it the wrong way and start hitting on them. They are all married and they never go home with guys but whats with the flirting obsession? Its not innocent but it not dirty either, I just don’t get it. (Women approx 40 yrs please respond)

  3. By BabeHart on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    It’s not a hobby, but yes some women over 40 flirt…especially those of us who are single.
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  4. By Joseph Shmo *MB Family* on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    They love flirting with me.
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  5. By yumiyukai on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    Women have better sex drive, and are social creatures…flirting can be casual/friendly…

    Just cause they flirt with guys who are married does not mean they are sleeping with them.
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  6. By Jesse on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    Where do you think the term "cougar" comes from when referring to women..
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  7. By liun on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    it’s probably the guy equivalent of wanting to stay buff etc. at the big four o. it makes them feel good about themselves
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  8. By NOWWITHXYLITOL on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    Everybody likes flirting. It feels good, psychologically, to know someone else out there thinks you’re attractive enough to flirt back. Maybe she does it out of peer pressure, maybe she does it because she’s not getting enough romance at home.
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  9. By Cambria on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    We like to feel desirable.
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  10. By Umisquared_05 on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    I’m not 40 and I’m not married but I like to flirt because I like the attention. It’s a good feeling to know that other men want you even though you’re off-limits. My dad is 55 and is happily married to my mom and he still flirts with other women. Some people are just flirtier than others.
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  11. By Lady Lee on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    Everyone wants to feel attractive esp. by the opposite sex.
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  12. By Nicolef on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    yes they do. Women have always liked to flirt and will always like to flirt. At that age it is simply an innocent way of getting attention and knowing that other men other than their husbands or boyfriends will still look at them .
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  13. By LuvIzLuvIzLuv on Mar 16, 2010 | Reply

    I’m 23, but if I live to be 40 I hope I still have the urge to flirt every now and then. It makes me happy. Women don’t just shrivel up and die once they hit a certain age. I think 40 is like the sexual peek for most women anyway.
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