Men Secret Health Issues – Part I
December 25th, 2009 | by admin |The stuff written about the size of the male penis could fill up all the libraries of the world, and then some more. Nothing – repeat, nothing – has been such an issue of male concern as the size of the penis. As a result, there have been several articles, periodicals, reports, books, etc. written about it. Most of these genuinely speak about the problems pertaining to penile sizes. But, sorry to say, a vast number of these articles help in perpetrating myths about the size of penis. We find such myths abounding in advertisements that sell products for increasing penis sizes. This article strives in a realistic and frank manner about penis sizes and also tries to remove some of the myths that center around the issue.
First and foremost, it is necessary to remember that there is nothing such as ‘the perfect penis’. When one looks at well-hung porn stars, there is bound to be a feeling of embarrassment about one’s own penis. That is natural, but you should remember that most of those porn stars are paid for their penis sizes. So they pump themselves up with steroids – something that is quite harmful to do – or maybe the digital camera does the trick.
Most men have penis sizes between 5½ to 7½ inches. So, if your penis lies in this range; there is nothing to be worried about. Another thing is that this penis size is an average all over the world. There is nothing supporting the fact that African penises are bigger and Asian penises are smaller. Men of all penis sizes are found all over the world.
Even if your penis is smaller than the size mentioned above, there is no need to be disheartened. A penis that is as small as 4 inches is enough to satisfy a woman. In the vagina, only the first few inches are sexually receptive. A penis of any size above four inches is enough to provide this stimulation. Also the clitoris – the prime spot of all female sexual stimulation – is placed at the outer end of the vagina, just below the vulva. Penises of all sizes can easily rub the clitoris if inserted properly. Thus, there is no need to worry about satisfying your woman on account of the size of your penis.
Many women, when asked, said that it is the girth of the man’s penis that matters to them and not the length. This may be true, as a fatter penis can better rub the outer rim of the vagina, and thus provide with more friction. A longer but thin penis would penetrate inside better, but there would be no rubbing of the sides, which is all the more important when it comes to providing the woman with satisfaction. Women are of the opinion that a longer penis is actually cumbersome for all kinds of penetrative sex, and in fact it is even painful to both the partners.
But again, there is no specified girth for the penis. Some statistics have revealed that a penis with a girth of nearing six inches should do the trick, though a smaller size is also very much efficient. Actually this depends very much on the width of the vagina itself. Most women have vaginas that are between 2 to 2½ inches in width. Hence a penis of anywhere about 4 inches in girth should be enough to satisfy a woman adequately.
Now we come to the most important part of this discussion. If the size of the penis does not biologically matter, and if women do not see much difference between a large and a not-so-large penis, then where does the argument lie? If you follow it closely, you will see that the size of the penis is most of all a male issue. It is the man who has the desire of having a big penis, and not necessarily the woman. Every many wants to look better-endowed in the locker rooms and in public showers. It is a kind of an ego-boost for a man to realize that he his member overshadows the members of his peers. That is where the whole issue begins from.
Thus, the need of a big penis is not biological; it is psychological. When a male happens to see a penis that is bigger than his, he might go, ‘Oh! What I would do to get a penis like his!’ And definitely the man may resort to several methods to gain a few millimeters on his penis.
For the woman, perhaps, a bigger penis is just a bigger toy and nothing more. It might provide her with some more pleasure during foreplay and may be she can experiment more with it during oral sex; but there’s nothing more than that. However, the expression on a woman’s face when she sees a well-hung man is all that is needed to bolster the man’s confidence about his own machismo.
It must be remembered that it is the sperm count and not the size of the penis that matters. You will find it asked often in all the magazine columns that, ‘I have a … inch penis, and I think it is too small. Will I be able to father children?’ There is nothing that penis size can do to your capacity of fathering children. If the sperm are deposited even on the outer rim of the vagina, they are equipped with flagella to swim their way up to the woman’s egg cells. So, no need to worry.
You need to worry only if you have an extremely small penis, called as a micropenis, which is disproportionately small to the rest of your genitals. Micropenises are below 1 inch in size, and they are caused due to some congenital conditions. There are surgical methods to get this problem treated.
So, if you have a fairly big enough penis, go ahead and feel confident about the world. Give your woman the love and affection that is more important. If your love is adequate, the size of the penis wouldn’t matter in any way.
Read more about Average Penis Size and other Secret Sexual Issues at http://www.mysecrethealth.com
Dr.Anna Hardy
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14 Responses to “Men Secret Health Issues – Part I”
By truthfinder31 on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
Is everyone a pervert to a certain point secretly ? why some dont acknowledge that sex is a part of nature ?
Well i been called a pervert i think twice since i have posted some questions here, well i did ask them didnt i ? i mean i didnt keep a secret, for me a pervert is someone who keeps it to him or herself, whats wrong in asking questions about humans sexuality ? they dont teach this at home, or the school, its from experiance and others opinion that we manage to level ourselves our in the terms of sexual behaviour,,,, I am open as a book in my thought or opinion, not just in sex, but in politics, family, health, racism, studies, issue`s and the whole lot,,,,,,,,, anyway whats your opinion on this ? Feel free to read my other questions, i do ask sensitive questions but i dont think im a perv just because i wanna know something, if i really wanted some fun perv wise i would be in a porn website not here
Neil i think you are right.. ppl might think im tryin to get sexual gratification,, dammit this place should be gender studies, not women studies, this is sexism, my question is targeted to both genders,,, now someone gonna tell me im bisexual ?? ha ha ha,, you cant have it your way with nature no matter what i suppose ha ha ha
By sosgez on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
It depends on which side you butter your puppies.
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By stoutseun69 on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
depends on your definition of pervert
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By Evan on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
I agree w/ you……….the perverts are the ones who accuse others of bn perverts,
If you accuse someone of bn gay, people are going to think you know this cuz you’ve slept with em…………………lol
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By bustup on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
This is the place to ask questions
and EVERY one is a perv to some degree
as long as it is appropriate to the forum you are on
you will note from some of the answers that thare are lots of underage ones here, either that or they have not matured mentally
real pervs are like the puritans who say that sex is a sin, the command to original pair on earth was to be fruitful and fill the earth, that meant intercourse and babies
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By andrei a on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
by calling other people pervs people ussualy deny themselves…by calling someone else a perv you divert the attension from yourself, people are sexual beeings but society made rules thus denying our liberty to be pervs…(you are free to be a perv but most people wont say there pervs because they are scared of society and what it will think) as diderot said some of us will be scared at the littlest dirty thought they have and will gladly say somthing worse to cover the shame of a statement that doesnt please society
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By Stella S on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
I’ve often been told that I’m ’sick’ or that I ‘need help’.
Then again, I’m female and females have always been punished by society for being uninhibited sexually.
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By Neil M on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
Yes sex is part of nature, but by asking about it you are being seen as trying to get women to talk about sex, which might give you some sexual gratification, they might think.
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By Alvinneo Sesshoumaru on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
I see,you are very open.But you are no pervert.
-noun.pervert
1.A person whose behaviour deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behaviour
-verb.pervert
1.Corrupt morally or by intemperance or sensuality
2.Practice sophistry; change the meaning of or be vague about in order to mislead or deceive
3.Change the inherent purpose or function of something
we wouldnt know…but not your actions on Yahoo Answer
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By GoodQuestion on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
Fact: children are present that have the right to their childhood. Please have some consideration for that. Are we on the same page adult to adult or not?
You might even have had a post or two from the younger generation asking you to stop it in their own way.
If you were in a truly loving relationship you would understand that the subject of sex is something special between two that have become one for a reason – it’s not lust or an experiment. When you find that special someone it is a bond that requires no question to family etc and yes, I think many would agree that it is private because of the issue of the bond. ~~~Live blessed friend
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By Deirdre O on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
I don’t find thinking of sex as perverted in the least, as this is a natural biological sensation. When you harm others in the process you have crossed the line. I find it wrong if you involve children and those people should be incarcerated and kept apart from the rest of society. As adults it is our moral responsibility to protect children from any type of exploitation. One should stay clear of animals as well as that is nasty and kinky.
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By Delicious on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
NO everyone is not secretly a perv, in fact, I have never encountered so many prudes in my entire life as I have here on this forum.
Yes, Y!A is a forum available to minors so we should be mindful of those tender lil ears.
However, I feel that the word PERV gets tossed around here way to literally, and I would never take offense to it.
Some people do indeed, cross the boundaries here, and do appear to have perverted tendencies, but I see people who ask anything even remotely sexual, being labled a perv.
Mostly, I’ve noticed that its the immature "girls" that use this as a catch all word. It seems to make them feel good to lable someone a perv.
I just really wish Y!A could find a viable way to create an adult only category, and all questions of such nature would be auto screened to that forum. THEN…people who misuse the word perv would be given violation notices, or dumb@ss rewards or something equivalent for being so immature!
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By mike h on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
It is only because society says it is wrong. (mainly due to religion.) For example, in Roman and ancient Egyptian times, homosexuality was perfectly acceptable. As was marrying as many wives as you wanted and keeping a Harem in other cultures. Marrying girls as young as thirteen was acceptable in England in the middle ages, and is still acceptable now in other countries. But at some point, haven’t all these been called perverted by modern British culture? I’m not saying they are or aren’t, I’m just saying perversion differs from culture to culture, time to time.
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By xmummyloulou21x on Dec 25, 2009 | Reply
i dont admit that i like sex – but i do! god the other night i couldnt get enough of my partner!!! but when its over im like well i didnt enjoy it! i dont think its woman like to admit it!!! i feel like a sl*g if you like, because of the way i have been bought up! ive been told sex is nasty and you shouldnt do it unless you wanna have a baby!! so i always think its wrong now! when its not! and so im not an open book about it!
my mum told me the other week me and my partner shouldnt be sleeping togethr (this was after she found a condom in my room)
im 21 – 22 very soon!!
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